Friday, May 05, 2006
Leonie's First!
"the things someone should have told you about men a damn long time ago"
its the very very plain and hard truth girls, it'll hurt you, but it'll set you free as well.
if a guy doesn't call you after a first date, he's just NOT THAT INTO YOU
if a guy takes so damn long to call you after a first date, he's just NOT THAT INTO YOU
if a guy has a girlfriend and he's still keeping in touch with you, he's actually just "keeping it warm" in case it doesn't work out with his girlfriend. in this case, he's just NOT THAT INTO both of you
if a guy forgets dates, anniversaries, birthdays, etc, he's just NOT THAT INTO YOU
if a guy cheats on you, he's REALLY just NOT THAT INTO YOU
if he refuses to meet your family, or tell you about his, he's JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU
if he refuses to make a committment, he's just NOT THAT INTO YOU
and if you're gonna say "but he does this and this and he's so sweet and loving and this and that but he's an idiot, why would he do THAT to me..." i have ONE and ONE answer only: HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!!
understanding the psychy of men has been something women have been trying to do for the longest time, and quite honestly, i can say i got it all down, or most of it. and really, it'll help any relationship with you have with the male species, friends, brothers, father or boyfriends... once you understand that it is part of their nature, you'll get along so much better!
never ask them to do something for you if you already know EXACTLY how you want it done, chances are they won't do it your way and you just end up angry
never make them do 2 or more things at a time because that slows down his efficiency rate and you'll just end up getting mad at him
men = pride. something we can never change even if we did genetic engineering. so don't get angry when they refuse to ask for directions and don't get angry if they refuse to say sorry first
never ask questions like "is what i'm wearing okay?" because really. REALLY. whatever we wear is fine with him. its whats underneath that matters ;)
if he says that can be interpreted in 2 ways, he definately meant it the way that doesn't hurt you, not the one that does
if you wanna save BOTH of you heartaches and headaches, for christ-sake girls, start saying what you feel, mean and want, DIRECTLY. subtle hints don't work, DIRECT hints don't work. just SAY IT
and every guy wants to find a girl that is EVERYTHING. a sports buddy, a mothering nurturer, a bitch, a sexy sassy classy chick, the ultimate turn-on is a babe who has 2 sides to her, one sweet, conservative side that people see, and the wild sexy side she turns on when the situation demands it
guys need the physical stuff to feel loved. girls need to feel loved before giving the physical stuff. thats just something both of us have to live with
believe it or not they do listen and feel and understand your problems. but they get fed up when we just want them to listen. they wanna DO SOMETHING about it. so don't whine and cry to them, we have girlfriends for that. whine and cry if we want help
i may be wrong about some of these things, but the general male population will conform.
oh and guys, don't bother trying to figure us women out, we can't even understand ourselves
Song of the Day: Look After You by The Fray
